Hey,

Julie here and let me tell you something. Every guy should know these common mistakes, because just about every guy messes these things up all the time. don't ruin your chances with your ex girlfriend by constantly making these 5 critical mistakes that kill a woman's attraction for you.

Mistake #1: Buying her stuff

Women respect a man who values himself highly. There are two types of value, one is where other women and men say you have high value – this is called "social proof" and cannot be faked.

The other way to have value is to own it, this is basically coming along and saying “I’m awesome… me chief, you Indian”. Buying a woman stuff to make her like you is the opposite, it’s almost like saying “I don’t see myself as valuable enough for you to just want to spend time with me so I’m going to make up for it by spending money on you”. There is the exception when a man gives a gift to a woman out of generosity, but either way money is not the solution right now - unless she broke up with you because you were stingy which by the way is also pretty unattractive in a guy!

Mistake #2: Acting Depressed To Get Attention

This will kill your chances with your girl faster than anything else. A woman will never, ever be attracted to a needy and insecure guy. People in general want to be around happy, positive and stable people and are universally turned off by depressed and unstable people.

Sure she may still care about you and take the time to comfort you for a bit, but don’t mistake that for you getting close to her again. Pity isn't an emotion that brings people together for long, mutual respect and attraction is a much better path to relationship success.

Mistake #3: Glorifying The Relationship

Statements like “You’re the love of my life” and “I can’t live without you”. when a person feels rejected and feels that sick insecure feeling it's easy to to jump to saying things like this. But before you do anything like that remember, it will come off as needy which is a big turn off. Just understand for now that you want her but you can’t act like you need her. It may work in the Hollywood movies us girls like to watch, but in reality, we like a man who can handle himself.

Mistake #4: Using logic, ploys and manipulation to persuade her to get back with you

Women make decisions for emotional reasons. Look – if you’ve tried to tell you’re ex girlfriend that you’ll change or that things will be different or otherwise tried to persuade her, you're going about things the wrong way. You need to change what's in her heart and her emotions, not what's in her mind.

Mistake #5: The Stalker Ex

No matter why you’re ex girlfriend broke up with you, I can guess that there’s one thing she want’s right now, and if you want a chance at getting her back, you better give that to her… she wants some space… that means you should cut off all contact with her for a few weeks, this let’s her miss you and see what life is like without you.

This is the single most powerful thing you can do to win your girlfriend back, and it works so well because women respect strength and self control and this exhibits both. Avoid these 5 deadly mistakes and you'll already be ahead of 95% of guys when it comes to getting your ex girlfriend back. Good luck!

In the next part of this series, I'm going to tell you exactly what to say to get your relationship back on track.

Good luck,

Julie Koadlow

PS: You want to know another mistake men make? Letting too much time pass, sure you shouldn't let you're girlfriend think you are needy.. but on the other hand you can't just do nothing! You need a solid plan for winning her back... The Ex Squared System has an 7% success rate and 100% money back guarantee. You have nothing to lose and every day you don't have a solid plan your putting into action is a day closer to your ex moving on - don't let that happen.